About Terry

Background

A born Unitarian, a fifth-generation Universalist, and a parish minister for almost fifty years, I have been honored to bring my experience and energy to the service of liberal religion as a volunteer, parish minister, fundraiser, consulting minister, executive of the Ballou Channing District, Interim Senior Minister of All Souls Church in Washington, DC, Special Assistant to the President of the UUA, Senior Advisor to the UUA President, Vice President for Stewardship and Development, Interim Senior Minister of the (Beacon) Unitarian Church in Summit, NJ, Interim Senior Minister at the Unitarian Universalist Society of Wellesley Hills, MA, Interim Senior Minister, First Church Salem, MA, Interim Minister, First Parish Dorchester, MA, and currently Transitional Minister, Shoreline UU Society, Madison, CT.
I have been married to the Reverend M. Susan Milnor (Interim Senior Minister of the First Parish Church in Beverly, MA) since 1987.  Our daughter, Abigail, is a 2012 graduate of Smith College and a 2017 graduate of the MFA program at the Actor’s Studio in New York City. She is a working actor in New York.

EDUCATION

Northfield Mount Hermon School, 1964, Magna Cum Laude
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Northfield Mount Hermon
Eltham College, London, 1965, English Speaking Union Fellow
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Eltham College
A.B. Oberlin College, 1969, Phi Beta Kappa, Magna cum Laude
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Oberlin College
B.D. Harvard Divinity School, 1973 in Ethics
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Harvard Divinity School

Ministries

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1973-1975 Associate Minister, Unitarian Church, Harrisburg, PA
I worked as the Director of Religious Education and youth programs. We had a church school of 100, 14 middle school youth and 16 high school youth. I was in the pulpit once a month and took charge of the annual canvass. I was mentored by the Rev’d Earnst Sommerfeld, a noted humanist thinker, and teacher. This 200 member congregation turned me into a minister and graciously ordained me.

1976-1982 Minister, Thomas Jefferson Memorial Church, Charlottesville, VA

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TJMUC Campus
I learned the basics of parish ministry in this wonderful congregation honoring Mr. Jefferson. During my tenure, the congregation doubled in size; carried out a strategic planning process; had two successful capital fund drives; redecorated its main building; acquired an additional building; constructed its first off-street parking lot and increased its impact in the community by constructing affordable housing

1982-1988 Senior Minister, Unitarian Universalist Congregation of Atlanta, GA

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Sanctuary UUCA

In the unforgiving, oval sanctuary of this large congregation, with people on all sides and above me, I learned the intricacies of preaching. In my years as senior minister, the congregation devised and carried out a successful five year plan; the budget doubled; three hundred new members were welcomed; the Association’s first and only full-time youth director was added; Rising Press, now with 15 books in print, was established; and a Conflict Resolution Center was developed using a three year Vetch Grant.

1988-1995 Senior Co-minister, First Universalist Church, Minneapolis, MN
While I was serving in a co-senior ministry with my spouse, the congregation devised and carried out a successful strategic plan; added five hundred new members (for a total of more than a thousand); increased its budget from $183,000 to $768,000; experienced a Unknown-2successful capital fund drive ($1.7 million); moved to new quarters; added the Association’s first full-time coordinator for social justice; developed an inner city youth partnership, Unity Summer, supported by a $250,000 Veatch grant; won the Pickett Award for congregational growth; built a large (17 groups, 100 people) music program; enhanced the church school to 610 children; established professionally supported youth programs involving more than a 100 junior and senior highers; and became a major force in the community.
1987-Present, Senior Consultant, Sweetser Consulting Services
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UUA President’s Council

During four decades of working with more than 450 different church boards and many district, denominational, ministerial and community committees, I have practiced organizational consulting. In my consulting practice I have conducted church board retreats; conflict interventions; strategic planning and visioning workshops (based on the Peter Drucker Tool of Nonprofit Assessment); and mainly, fundraising programs (more than $500 million raised).

1996-1999, Executive, Ballou Channing District, UUA
I was responsible for delivering field services to congregations, ministers and religious bcd_profile_squareeducators to the nearly fifty Unitarian Universalist churches of Southeastern Massachusetts and Rhode Island. I conducted more than 100 workshops in those three years covering every aspect of congregational life and relating to all congregational sizes. More than twenty of these congregations have participated in vision and planning work with me. Almost all congregations have participated in my fundraising workshops. During my tenure, the District improved its dues compliance from 60% to 83% of the ask and added Religious Education and Youth Professionals.

1999-2000, Interim Senior Minister, All Souls Church, Washington

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Sanctuary All Souls Washington

This deeply divided congregation asked me to help heal its wounds, stabilize membership and improve fundraising. During the year, the entire congregation participated in more than 40 focus groups to find common hope for the future. Over 100 new members were added to the congregation. And, the church had its most successful canvass ever. One of my great joys is seeing it thrive in its new settled ministry.

2000-2002, Special Assistant to the President, UUA: The Campaign for UUism

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I was responsible for the organization, publications, major donor phase and management of this $32 million campaign. We raised more than $35 million as we closed the Campaign at the General Assembly of the Unitarian Universalist Association in June of 2004. Of the $35 million raised more than $20 million came from donors cultivated and closed by me.

2002-2014, Senior Advisor to the President, UUA

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Continuing my work as the senior fundraiser for the Association, I added responsibilities for public outreach campaigns, establishing a UUA Donor Advised Fund and assisting the President in planning for financial development. During the leadership transition in the Association’s Financial Development (summer and fall of 2003), I assumed leadership and mentoring role on the management team. Additionally, I was charged with setting up regional UU growth funds with an ultimate goal of raising $50 million for use in local societies and metro areas.

2004-2014, Vice President for Stewardship and Development, UUA

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At the President’s request, I started as Acting Vice President in January 2004 and was appointed Vice President in June 2004. In this role, I was responsible for the comprehensive fundraising efforts of the Association including over $15 million annually in cash and $10 million in deferred gifts. During my service as chief UUA fundraiser, we brought over $200,000,000.00 in cash to support Unitarian Universalism. It’s a joy to have helped hundreds of donors make their dreams come true in the faith they love.

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2014- 2016, Interim Senior Minister, Beacon Unitarian Church in Summit, NJ. This wonderful congregation asked me to help them through the abrupt loss of two beloved ministers and to implement a collaborative leadership team approach to church operations. They have settled the exceptional Reverend Robin Tanner as Minister of Worship and Outreach, and their future is bright.

2016-2018Interim Senior Minister at the Unitarian Universalist Society of Wellesley Hills, IMG_1004MA. This quintessential New England congregation asked me to assist them in implementing shared ministry. Once worried about their prospects of settling a minister, they have now called the remarkable Rev. Dr. Kelly Murphy Mason.

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2018-2019, Interim Senior Minister at First Church UU in Salem, MA. Serving the oldest free church in North America was a thrill and helping them prepare for their extraordinary settled minister candidate, Elisabeth Ide, was a delight. As First Church turns towards its fifth century, hope abounds.
2019-2020, Interim Senior Minister at the First Church of Dorchester, MA.

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First Parish Dorcester UU

Serving another nearly 400 year old congregation in a time of pandemic and virtual worship has been a special challenge. Four of our eight members contracted COVID-19 and one died after an extensive ICU stay. Through it all, the congregation persevered and found an inspiring settlec minister, Elizabeth Carrier- Ladd

DENOMINATIONAL SERVICE

1977-79 Program Chair, South East Unitarian Universalist Ministers’ Association
1979-82 Trustee, Thomas Jefferson DistrictUnknown
1979-82 Chair, Extension Committee, Thomas Jefferson District
1979-82 Good Offices Minister, South East Unitarian Universalist Ministers’ Association
1982-84 President, South East Unitarian Universalist Ministers’ Association
1984-88 Good Officers Minister, South East Unitarian Universalist Ministers’ Association
1985-95 Founder and Senior Editor, Rising Press (more than 15 books in print)
1986-89 Member, Unitarian Universalist Grants Making Panel (Fund for Unitarian Universalism)
1987-89 Member, Unitarian Universalist Association Nominating Committee
1987-89 Founder and Dean, College of Preachers (became CENTER’s Preaching Seminar Committee)
1987-Present, Facilitator, Unitarian Universalist Ministers’ Association Preaching Seminars (16 conducted serving more than two hundred of our ministers)
1988 Mid-Winter Lecturer, All Souls Unitarian Church, Tulsa, OK
1989-1996 Trustee at Large, Unitarian Universalist Association
1989-91 Member, Unitarian Universalist Association Finance Committee
1989-91 Member, Unitarian Universalist Association Administrative and Personnel Committee
ls1989-93 Chair, Unitarian Universalist Association Distinguished Service Award Committee
1991-1996 Second and Vice Moderator, Unitarian Universalist Association
1992 Wrote and performed in Unitarian Universalist Association Video: Ministers and Money
1993 Wrote and performed in Unitarian Universalist Association Video: Funding the Dream
1993-1995 Member, Unitarian Universalist Association Board Committee on Ministerial/Staff Compensation. Was responsible for moving the final report through the board and General Assembly
1993-95 Member, Unitarian Universalist Association Board Working Group on Congregational Life
1995-1996, Member, Unitarian Universalist Association Board Working Group on Congregational Life, District Services, and Extension
1994-1996, Member, Unitarian Universalist Association Finance Committee
1995-1997 Chair, Unitarian Universalist Ministers’ Association Center Preaching Seminar Committee
1996-1997 Chair, Unitarian Universalist Association Board’s Fair Share Task Force
1996-99 Member, Field Staff Working Group on Religious Education
1999 Voted Twenty-five Year Preacher by the Unitarian Universalist Ministers’ uu-word-cloud-photo-credit-The-Unitarian-Universalist-Church-of-the-Restoration-Association, Ministry Days, General Assembly, Salt Lake City, UT
2000-2001 Member, President’s Taskforce on Lay Training
2003 Florida District Annual Meeting Keynote Speaker
2016 Member CLF BOT
Seeking Justice for Black Lives Matter

Leading UU’s at a protest in Foley Square, NYC